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Valerie, I couldn't help but notice a good portion your comment was regarding yourself. Try looking outward, and do so openly, and perhaps you'd see that Phil is just doing what he thinks is right. By being a conscience a person, that IS his right. After all, you are what you focus on. I'd rather hope more people would be focused on doing the right thing--no matter what it is--than not. If not, what kind of "life lesson" would that be? And please, use proper english. There could be english readers reading.