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Over the last few years l have learnt alot. Up until a few years ago my partner and l had worked hard, we were able to buy and do activities with our 5 children had private health insurance (which was never really used). We are a blended family and had always paid my partners ex over and above child support which we did not mind cause its for the kids. We signed a agreement until the kids turn 18 for child support for a amount of money based on my partners high income...... Years later my partners company was struggling we got out moved to the country and leased a general store. Our income dropped dramatically gave up things we could not afford like the health insurance and outings with the kids. We still payed the large child support bill even know our income had dropped big time. After three years in the shop we were broke and sold it for just enough to cover the shop bills we were falling behind on the child support payments could not afford to have insurance on our cars or contents...