{"id":24634,"date":"2019-10-07T13:20:55","date_gmt":"2019-10-07T17:20:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/philip.greenspun.com\/blog\/?p=24634"},"modified":"2019-10-06T16:24:55","modified_gmt":"2019-10-06T20:24:55","slug":"au-pair-infatuation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/philip.greenspun.com\/blog\/2019\/10\/07\/au-pair-infatuation\/","title":{"rendered":"Au Pair Infatuation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>From a group instant messaging chat among some guys who have employed au pairs:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Father 1: I think one of our former Au Pair is infatuated with me. She has been tagging me on Facebook and sending me wishes and all sorts of stuff.<\/li><li>Father 2: we need a picture of this au pair!<\/li><li>Father 1: [includes photograph of slender long-haired woman with high cheekbones]<\/li><li>Father 2: where does she live now?<\/li><li>Father 1: Mexico.<\/li><li>Father 2: That sounds bad.<\/li><li>Father 2: You might have to go to Cancun to meet with her in a hotel room and sort this out.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Related:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a href=\"https:\/\/philip.greenspun.com\/blog\/2015\/04\/29\/au-pair-to-green-card\/\">https:\/\/philip.greenspun.com\/blog\/2015\/04\/29\/au-pair-to-green-card\/<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/philip.greenspun.com\/blog\/2019\/01\/18\/the-49-year-old-father-and-the-au-pair\/\">https:\/\/philip.greenspun.com\/blog\/2019\/01\/18\/the-49-year-old-father-and-the-au-pair\/<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/philip.greenspun.com\/blog\/2017\/11\/26\/american-moms-supervising-online-dating-for-young-foreign-women\/\">https:\/\/philip.greenspun.com\/blog\/2017\/11\/26\/american-moms-supervising-online-dating-for-young-foreign-women\/<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From a group instant messaging chat among some guys who have employed au pairs: Father 1: I think one of our former Au Pair is infatuated with me. 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