Infidelity and breadwinner status
“Husbands of female breadwinners most at risk for cheating, says study” is a CNN story on an academic study finding that men are more likely to have affairs when their wife earns more than they do while wives are correspondingly less likely to cheat. The financial incentives and intersection with state-by-state family law are deemphasized.
Let’s look at the financial incentives. Consider the pampered husband of a financial industry executive. They’ve been married for 30 years while she works for an investment bank and he paints in a home studio while nannies watch the kids. His wife is now 60 years old and about to retire. Her fertility is exhausted. Her earnings are about to cease and all of the financial value that she contributed to the marriage is now in savings and retirement accounts.
The husband thinks to himself “Perhaps it would be more enjoyable to be having sex with 22-year-old women from Craigslist.” Suppose that he indulges in this new lifestyle with at least four such women (“I think a man can have two, maybe three, affairs while he is married. But three is the absolute maximum. After that, you’re cheating.” — Yves Montand). If this leads to either spouse heading down to the courthouse for a no-fault divorce the typical U.S. state will reward him with 50% of the wife’s accumulated earnings and future pension. Should we need to look further to explain the data?
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