One constant feature of health care in Maskachusetts was the provider asking, often as the first question of an encounter, “Do you feel safe at home?” A fit 6’2″ tall 25-year-old who identified as a cisgender heterosexual man would be asked this question just the same as a frail slight person identifying as female.
A memorable example of this was the delay of care being provided to Senior Management after I had taken her to a community hospital in Cambridge, MA at 5 am. Getting to the bottom of the “Do you feel safe at home?” question was more important than asking about the labor pains that had occasioned the hospital visit (the same hospital where she had been receiving prenatal care, so it wasn’t a new-patient situation). In order that she would be free of coercion, the person who got up at 4:30 am to do the hospital drive had to removed into a separate room so that the 9-months-pregnant person could answer this question freely before moving on to whether abortion care (perfectly legal at all stages of pregnancy in Maskachusetts) or delivery was desired.
An example in miscommunication occurred when the question followed me telling the doctor that I had recently returned from a trip to Israel. This was early in the adoption of the “Do you feel safe?” question so I heard it as “Did you feel safe?” and launched in a long explanation of security risks in Israel, the lack of street crime compared to big U.S. cities, etc. The doc then had to explain that she didn’t care about Israel but about whether Senior Management was physically abusing me.
Because I’m in possession of a mostly timed-out body, I’ve had quite a few encounters with physicians here in Florida since August 2021. What did these encounters have in common? Never once was I asked if I felt safe at home. Nor are patients asked to wear masks, even inside the full-service hospitals with operating rooms, etc.
Separately, I’m noticing that a remarkably high percentage of doctors in Florida are private jet charter customers. The specialist who toils for peanuts in MA and pays 5% income tax (9% under the new “millionaires’ tax” if there is a rare good year) will pay 16% estate tax on finally dying. He/she/ze/they can bask in the glory of institutional prestige, e.g., at MGH, even if prestige doesn’t come with a lot of money. The counterpart in FL seems to earn twice as much, pays 0% income and estate tax, and spends the extra on a luxurious lifestyle.
So….. do you feel safe at home?
Hard to believe Greenspun delivered so many babies. The average blog commenter has none of those memories except for the tales single mothers lovingly told of their ex husbands.
Well, citizens have to be trained to report each other to a growing number of authorities. That’s how the system works.
Does Florida have anonymous reporting in schools and universities?
No man is safe from the nagging of a wife.
https://twitter.com/AnechoicMedia_/status/1629315139169075200
Phil — you would appreciate this thread on MIT computer genius Margaret Hamilton’s real story
Thanks. https://amzn.to/3EUnQrg is an MIT Press book on the development of the Apollo software. Margaret Hamilton is mentioned a couple of times as a source for the author, but is not described as having written any part of the Apollo code for which she is credited as the “lead developer” (in https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Margaret_Hamilton_(software_engineer) ). The programmers whom the author considered significant are listed by name in the book and are described as having done their most important work on the Apollo software in the early 1960s, before Ms. Hamilton was hired at MIT/Draper. But then we have https://www.draper.com/news-releases/margaret-hamilton-apollo-software-engineer-named-fellow-computer-history-museum from Draper itself, which says she was “in charge” and “led the team”.
(The book was written before Barack Obama gave Ms. Hamilton the Presidential Medal of Freedom.)
The Twitter post cites a 2001 interview with Ms. Hamilton (and her boss/husband) by the future author of the Digital Apollo book, but in the interview she doesn’t say if she wrote any code that went into the spacecraft. Most of what she says regarding Apollo sounds like management of programmers, not programming.
https://authors.library.caltech.edu/5456/1/hrst.mit.edu/hrs/apollo/public/conference1/hamilton-intro.htm
I’ve been asked that question at least 100 times by now so I expect it, but in the beginning it gave me pause and confusion because I’d never heard it before. So I said: “What do you mean by ‘safe’? Statistically speaking there are some non-negligible, ineradicable, dangerous things in life that I can’t reliably predict.”
…and then we circled around for a couple of minutes until I figured out exactly what the NP meant. I answered “Yes.”
Now I get it every time I visit, of course, and sometimes from two or even three doctors, NPs, etc. if it’s going to be a long day. Despite a sophisticated computer system, where the answer must have gone the first time, I guess the policy must be to ask every single time you visit a different doctor in a different part of the hospital. That, or they’re all too busy to read the notes from the doctor I saw ten minutes ago.
Anyway, it doesn’t bug me as much as it would if I were being treated in any kind of emergency situation, including a closely-approaching live birth, if they ever get this “Men Can Get Pregnant!” thing rolling along. (I’m kidding.)
Hilarious inre: the answer about your safety in Israel. That’s a “Roseanne Roseannadanna” moment if I ever heard of one.
And it’s nice to hear that you can add “Enjoy Talking With Physicians About Aviation” to the list of things you like about Florida. It’s good kismet!